華子 is yawning~

Tuesday, January 17, 2006

Question

How can a gal who gets shy and nervous in front of every guy that seems to look her way when she passes by ever gonna be romantically involved?

I don't get it. There's no way that there can be a start. And worse still, most prob when the gal is comfortable with that guy, she most prob would have also eliminated the chances of being romantically attached to him as well.

There's no way out, is there? hrm.

è¯å yawned @ 10:51 AM

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4 Comments:

Anonymous said on 1:01 PM: wow this is something deep leh dor dor.

I guess the trick is to "train" that person so that she dun get nervous with every guy that comes along by exposure exposure and more exposure OR train her to hide her nervouness well so at least no one knows hahaha. Well i guess the most impt thing is to only get nervous in front of the guy that really attracts the gal and not EVERY guy lah... she need to see more disgusting guys out there to realise that not every guy is worth getting nervous over hahaha

But sad to say i also think that if the girl is comfortable with that guy probably she eliminated MOST of the chances of getting attracted to him as well. This comes to a pt that i was also pondering... how can friends eventually evolve into couples?? Are they truely friends in the first place or all along they do have some sort of special feeling for that special friend? Are they just using "friendship" as a smokescreen all the while and is only waiting for the perfect opportunity to let their love blossom? OR really they just thought they couldnt find anyone better and if they dun get attach soon they will be left on the shelve?

Haha just something silly to let u think more about it. I dun have the answer to that too.

And oh ya, i do read your blog once in a while haha...
.::.dor.::. said on 6:36 PM: eh, i think ur response more is more cheem than my question. hahaha~

hrm, i've also wondered about that also. does that mean that if u wanna get attached u must go out and search for "not a friend" but a "bf"??? omg~
Anonymous said on 9:06 PM: haha good question... how can ppl get attach by looking for prospective bf only? i dunno leh somehow i feel that those friends that eventually developed into couples do have a "likeing" of each other even when they are just friends. Not possible that both of them just suddenly like each other out of the blue. but if things din turn out well (need a lot of factors to get together) then they will just be "friends". Wonder how does it feel... to have someone close and just there for you, but somehow just din end up together. i remember i saw this powerpt slide before that says that there will always be this special person in most ppl's heart. I think i have that kind of person in my heart too. What about you?

Haha now is this a singles wondering-what-is-the-world-coming-to session?

Still learning to get over with a lot of things... oh well single is good still. ^_^
Anonymous said on 4:00 PM: wah i need alot of time 2 digest wat sq said. ah. usually pple who noe each other 4 very long wldnt end up together. even tho u may pine 4 the person very much. n usually who u end up with is not someone u love most. its sad la. meaning i wldnt b together with my *insert name* (read my blog 2 understand my situation. muahhaa). oh well. let's juz all live together n rear animals. =p